how-to-name-it?

guys this blog is not abt a specific topic,its jus my flow of feelings,so i'm not promising anythin.

well one question i've always find in all places is-does God exist?
lately i've been thinknin and as for me i think that God does exist but i don't believe tht he's supernatural force determining our destiny and making us to do what he wants because tht entirely destroys ur identity instead i believe tht we're the creators of our own destiny,then where does God comes in this equation?i think tht God has given us the freedom to choose what we want and whenever we find ourselves in a tight spot he jus gives us more options ans nudges us to take the best option like our instinct,some call it luck but i choose to call it the act of God,whenever we're down we blame God and in the process we fail to recognize the alternatives he(am not a male chauvinist,it can be a female also,faster to type than she,a letter more than he) has given us and we always fail to understand one thing,every problem or situation we face has a solution but we forget that and start to panic,the one who keeps his head cool durin his rough times is destined to scale new heights.
thts it wit Gods.

The next one is enirely different and personal.

lately i've been feeling really low and depressed to the core for various reasons and i dont kno
wat to do,thats when these philosophical thoughts came to me like the God thing above,and my friends always tel me tht i'm never happy,i never used to take them seriously,but in the last few days,it really made sense because i felt that everyone around me were happy except me and i was expecting things to go in my way, then i realised that maybe in order to truly enjoy life you have to let go some things,u jus feel the way you choose to feel,i'm writing this because even in the future,if i'm upset or down maybe i'll read this make myself come up,i jus want to tell all those who feel the same way like me and are not able to share it,like the scene in jab we met,jus write your feelings in a paper and put it away somewhere and try to concentrate on other things,i bet you'll feel better when u truly concentrate on other things and i think that life is too short for us to feel sad,it gives us everythin,it's jus us who are not willing to take the chances.
i'm not going to ask you whether this blog is good or bad and i'm not goin to apologise if this is bad because these are my feelings and i gave you the choice,you took it,if you feel it's bad.i jus want to say FUCK OFF,I DON CARE

Dreams in the attic

How many of you had a dream about your future when you were young and couldn’t pursue it later?
Many would say “I have”, wat’s the reason behind this? One of the main reasons for this is parents, if a parent is a doctor, he wants his son also to be one, and same goes with engineers, accountants etc, but what about the child? What about his dreams? Everything is shattered due to the child’s parents.
But in most cases blaming the parents would be unfair. Imagine what if the same parent who forces his child to choose the career that he chose for the child was forced by his father the same way? So he just wants to achieve the goals he dreamt of achieving when he was young but couldn’t achieve through his children, he just wants his child to be well positioned in the society, but in the process he fails to remember his child’s dream and feelings. In some cases finance will be a major problem, imagine a middle aged parent around 40-45 years and imagine if his child wants to be a pilot and the basic cost for this is around 2.5 million Rs. The father has to support himself and the family first, I mean he will be in the budding stage of his career and he wouldn’t be able to produce that kind of money, so he is forced to change his child’s career much against the child’s wishes.
The other set of children are those pampered princes who get what they want when they want, these children are given full freedom by their parents in the hope that they understand life more by gaining experience, but how far will this freedom work? When there is no one to question the child, what will he do? In all these cases the child will prosper only when he has self realization of what is wrong and what is right, but in most of the cases they don’t have it and at the end they jeopardize their life, and in some cases the child goes awry with the newly found freedom but once he has suffered from that he begins to realize the reality and will prosper no matter what obstacles he face.
The other major problem we face in our child’s career is the method of teaching we follow in the sub-continent. The time for selecting candidates according to their academic records is over, what our children need at this stage is skill based education. We should encourage our children to pursue what they want, and by that we can know in what area he is strong and in what skills he can be enhanced in. See for example if you start a company and it goes well for some time and when the business goes bad you can’t allow some dumb business man selling onions in Africa to takeover your company, to prevent this you should have the skill to keep your company afloat in rough times and you should also have a basic finance knowledge, you can’t keep on spending what you earn, so everyone must know where and when to invest and in what to invest.
So if your dreams are stacked in the attic and if it’s too late, don’t worry, you have come a long way in life to change it and never let your child’s dreams thrown there even if he’s interested in photography, let it be. After all it’s our children's happiness is what makes us happy.

And as usual I don’t know how you like this blog but if it’s bad am sorry guys for this horrible experience.
And I would dedicate this blog to my father, my mother, my aunt, my uncle and my cousins who all stand by me for each decision I take and especially my father who gave me so much freedom that I failed once and made me realize what life is and still gives me the freedom to choose what I want,and to my mother who stands by me through all the bad decisions i take.
And a special mention to my friends who support me whenever I’m in trouble and who made me realize who I’m and what I’m, thanks guys.
Dream, because dream leads to thoughts,
Thoughts lead to character,
And your character forms your life,
So never stop dreaming...